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How to talk to a Girl you Like in 2022

How to talk to a girl

We all boys and men in our entire life have one thing in common. We all felt nervous, awkward and our feet started to shake whenever we decided to talk to a girl. This is an issue with 98% of the boys. Rest 2% of the boys had that fear and nervousness too but they overcame that fear with practice and by using some old-fashioned but 100% working tricks.

As they say ‘Old is Gold’.

Even if you are nervous and shaking from head to toe just by thinking about talking to your crush, don’t worry. It’s totally normal. Because we all grew up spending most of the time using smartphones and chatting with girls online. Most of us never even try to talk to girls in real life.

So, just gather up all of your strength and keep aside your fear and nervousness for one day.

Well, it’s easier said than done but if you want your crush then you have to. Just read our tips and tricks given below to start your conversation and get on the good list of your crush.

Pay attention to your appearance

Your outer appearance is the very first thing that your crush will notice when you will be talking to her. Even if you are the nicest guy but you look shabby, wear dirty clothes, smell terrible then it will not work.

Girls spend a lot of their time on their appearance and they expect the same from others. I am not saying to buy expensive clothes and gadgets. Just buy some decent clothes, nice perfumes and do take a bath before talking to her. You will be fresh, smell good after a bath and you can talk to her much easily

Are you nervous? Doesn’t matter because the reward is much greater.

It’s totally normal to feel a little nervous before going to talk to girls, especially to the one you like. If you want the girl you like to like back then you must be confident and talk to her without any hesitation at least in front of her.

So forget your nervousness and fear for one day and approach her with full confidence because the beginning is the hardest, once you will get into a conversation then it will become much easier to talk to her in the future.

And remember the prize “Your dream girl”

Approach the girl you like

After paying a little attention to your outer appearance now it’s time to approach the girl you like. Once you are fully ready to take action, find a suitable place and timing to approach her. The place can be anywhere unless it’s an awkward place to talk. Like you can talk to her in the garden, in class, in the library or any public place.

  • Once you see her and she acknowledges you just smile, wave a hand, and walk up to her and say hi. Don’t just wait for her to approach you. Most of the girls don’t approach boys directly, they want boys to approach them.
  • Then you can start by casual talking like asking her how was your day, what are you doing today and like this.
  • Read her face. You can read her face to do an effective talking. Like if she looks sad, ask her if anything is wrong, can I help with something.
  • If she expressions are little awkward, moves her eyes too much, doesn’t greet you well, doesn’t reply to your conversation then that’s a simple no. She is not interested in you. Just move away and leave her be. You deserve one who is happy to have you.

Be straight forward with your Intentions

Nowadays girls prefer guys who are straightforward with what they want. Because this is a busy world, she doesn’t have her full day to spend on you when she doesn’t even know you well and she doesn’t even know what you want and whether you can provide value to her life or not.

So don’t go around the bush and just be straightforward with your attentions. If you want to be her boyfriend just ask her for coffee, dinner, or a movie.

  • If she is interested she will definitely respond positively and will say yes. But if she is busy and can’t go out right now then you can decide to go out later, just ask when she is free and give her the date and time.
  • Even after asking her when is she free and we can go whenever she is free, she still making excuses to skip going out with you then thats a no. Just leave her be and move on to the new one.

Don’t try to prove that your the best for her

Whenever we talk to a girl, especially to a girl we are attracted to we try to prove that we are the best for her and she can’t find anyone like us in the entire world. This can backfire on you.

So just talk to her as a normal friend at least for a couple of days because the first impression is the last impression. Just talk to her normally as you would talk to a normal friend.

Try to know her better like her interests, hobbies, and what she does in her free time. This will help the conversation to keep going.

Keep the conversation going on

Once we start to talk to a girl we like, most of the time we end up with no topics to talk about and the conversation becomes boring and awkward. So it’s very important to keep the conversation going on.

You can find more topics to talk about in between your conversation. Like her hobbies, interests, what she does in her free time, etc.

Try to find similarities between your life and her life and talk about that. Like if you go to the same class or university then you can talk about that.

Don’t lie to her just to be cool. Be honest with her with whatever you say to her.

Best topics to talk about with a girl

You can figure out topics to about within the conversation itself but to be foolproof below are some of the best and interesting topics to talk about with a girl and keep the conversation going on.

Pets and Animals

Who doesn’t love pets and animals? Almost everyone loves pets and animals. Girls especially love pets as they are cute, funny, furry, soft and so lovable. This topic will definitely bring a smile to her face and life to your conversation.

You can talk about your childhood pet or a pet you have right now. Possibilities are high that she might have one too.


You can talk about your favorite music and ask her about her favorite music and singers.

The Food

Food is one of the most interesting topics to talk about as everyone loves food and a happy stomach means a happy person and a happy mood.

So try to find out what is it that she likes to eat or drink and ask her out for lunch or dinner at her favorite restaurant. You can also talk about your favorite food.


You can ask her about her last trip or where she wants to travel on her next trip. This topic makes you feel adventurous and fun-loving and most girls want a fun life full of adventures and fun.

You can convince her that you have a fun life and if she becomes a part of your life then she will have a lot of fun too. And this works. You can also share some of your favorite places to visit and the last place you visited.

Future Plans

If you can convince her that you have great future plans and you are really working hard to complete them then this will be a plus point.

Almost every girl wants a guy with a bright and successful future who can provide for the family. If you do have future plans then do tell her.

You can also ask about her future plans and where does she see herself in the next 5-10 years.

Increase your chances by not saying ‘OK’ on whatever she says

If you want your crush to like you then one of the biggest mistakes guys do is saying yes or ok on whatever says. You may think that saying yes or ok o whatever she says will increase your chances of her liking you. But this will backfire on you.

She doesn’t want a pet to whom she says whatever and he will do without saying anything. Try to be a little non-reacting. If she makes fun of your clothes, hairstyle, or shoes not because she dislikes you but because she is attracted to you and she is teasing you, just ignore the comment or respond to it in a funny way like you don’t care.

If you learn to ignore sometimes then she will think that you are confident in your appearance and you don’t care much what others think about you and this is sexy.

Stay careful about your personal hygiene

With personal hygiene what I mean is that brush your teeth, comb your hair, and dress carefully. These simple and easy steps add up to your personal appearance.

Take bath regularly and don’t ever forget to take a bath before you go to meet her. Don’t let anything stuck in your teeth like a vegetable or something, this will be a disaster if she notices it.

If you have a little extra weight or a little less weight then don’t worry, most of us don’t really care so much about that unless you are very very fat or very very skinny. And if they don’t wanna talk to you because of this then just move on, there are billions of girls on this planet.

Give her a compliment

Everyone loves compliments but girls love them even more especially when they come from the one they are attracted to. Don’t compliment her in a too cheezy or too physical way at the beginning because you guys just started to know each other.

In the beginning just compliment her about her dress, hair, or eyes. And remember don’t compliment too much and too much at the same time. One or two compliments are enough in the beginning.

Talk about her career

You can talk about your career and earn some extra points. Ask her what does she do for a living or study. Most of the women love to talk about their jobs like what she likes in her job and what she doesn’t.

If she doesn’t like her job then she will talk about it and you can be the shoulder for her to cry on about her difficult/ bad job. You can also ask her about her co-workers and how were they to her, bad or good.

Talk about family

Family is a very personal thing so when you discuss your families then you create a personal and lovable bond with that person. So it’s a very good topic to talk about when you are looking to get close to that person.

You can ask her who is in her family and can tell her about your family too.

Be a good listener

If you are the only one who is speaking again and again without listening to her then this is a bad impression. This says that you don’t listen to others and you only talk never listen. So be a listener sometimes.

Girls need someone who can listen to them, about their bad days, bad memories, good memories, and fun activities. So please try to be a good listener and don’t cut her in between she is talking. When you listen to others then you get extra points as the other person thinks that you are really interested in them and their life.

Don’t try too hard to be funny and smart

Most of us guys make this mistake. When we are new at talking to girls we think that it’s very important to keep the whole conversation as funny as possible. But in doing so the conversation ends up being awkward, uncomfortable, and sometimes even embarrassing for both.

So. don’t try too hard to be funny and smart. Just be who you are. Girls do prefer funny guys over boring guys but don’t overdo it. Just keep a normal conversation with little jokes here and there with which both of you are comfortable.

Remember the objective at the beginning is to have a decent, comfortable chat with her, not a super fun one if you don’t know how to.

Don’t worry about the rejection

More than 80% of us don’t even try to approach the person we like just because of the fear of rejection.

There is a quote that:

“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”- Charles R. Swindoll

This simply means that even if you get rejected, life doesn’t end there. How you react to the rejection decides whether you will succeed or fail in the future.

So even if you get rejected just remember that there are billions of girls on this planet and the one you got rejected from is not the one God chose for you. Just keep trying to find the one who will treasure you.

Acknowledge the talk

If you are enjoying your conversation then do let her know. This will let her know that you are interested in her and you are enjoying her company. In return, she might also tell the same that she is also enjoying the chat.

You can also ask her if there is something particular that she would like to know about you or not.

Find out if she is interested in you or not

Doesn’t matter if you are most loving, attractive, intelligent but not everyone will be interested in you in the way you want. That’s how it is.

So try to find out whether she is interested in you or not. You can find this out by analyzing her face, expressions, and her way of talking. If she is just replying to you and not actively participating in the conversation then the chances are very high that she is not interested in you.

If you are sure that she is not interested in a relationship with you then just say goodbye to her and leave. There are billions of girls out there.

Ask for her number

If you are interested in her and you realize that she is interested in you too just ask for her mobile number. Just tell her that it was nice talking to her and you two should be in touch with each other and ask for her number or social media.

After getting her mobile number that you should get in 90% of the time you can contact her after 1 or 2 days. Don’t contact her just after 2-3 hours you left. You will seem like you are too desperate and that’s a negative point.

Give her a time of 1-2 days to think about the next step and if you are lucky she will definitely think about you and the time she spent with you at this time.


Just leave your fear and hesitation for the day and approach her. Be a kind, honest, loving, and good listener. Approach her after checking on your personal hygiene.

Remember you will get rejections, that’s a fact. So just accept the outcome, respect her answer and move on. There are literally billions of girls out there.

At the end of the conversation thank her for giving her valuable time to chat and then ask for her number to stay in contact and contact her after at least 1-2 days not sooner than this.

FAQs on How to talk to a Girl

How do you start a conversation with a girl?

Pro tips to start a conversation with a girl:

  1. Compliment her.
  2. Introduce yourself and ask about her.
  3. A pick-up line will be nice.
  4. Find common thing between you both.
  5. Talk about pets and animals.
  6. Ask her help in any of your problem or help her instead with something.
  7. Talk about family.
  8. Share your best and worst travel experience.

How do you talk to a cute girl?

Tips to talk to a cute girl are:

  1. Approach her and say hi, what you doing or what you up to.
  2. You can also ask for her name if you don’t know.
  3. Compliment her about her eyes, hair or dress.
  4. Use some pick-up lines.
  5. Be confident.
  6. Take care of your personal hygiene.
  7. Figure out what does she like and talk about that.
  8. Be a good listener.
  9. Respect her.

How do you start a flirty conversation?

Guide on how to start a flirty conversation:

  1. Make her blush with compliments but not too much compliments.
  2. Say that you have been dreaming about her lately.
  3. You can also say “If you need a date i am right here” and i am totally free.
  4. Mention fun things you can do together.
  5. Ask her out.

What do I say to a girl?

Best and sweet things to say to a girl:

  1. I really enjoyed the time we spent together and want to spend more.
  2. Lets have a trip together.
  3. I love you smile.
  4. I have been dreaming about you more often lately.
  5. I can’t stop thinking about you.
  6. I love you and i like you.
  7. Thank you for being there for me.
  8. You teach me what love is.
  9. You define what beauty is.
  10. Can i take you on a date again.

How do you get a girl to like you?

Here’s how to get a girl to like you:

  1. Be confident in who you are.
  2. Make an eye contact with her.
  3. Make her laugh.
  4. Respect her.
  5. Talk about fun travel stories.
  6. Talk about love and relationships.
  7. Be a good listener.
  8. Help her with something.

How I can impress a girl?

Guide on how to impress a girl:

  1. Be a gentlemen and confident.
  2. Use some pick-up lines.
  3. Compliment her.
  4. Ask for her advise.
  5. Ignore you phone when in conversation with her.
  6. Ask her for a date.

How do I know if a girl likes you?

Signs a girl likes you are:

  1. If she compliments you.
  2. Tries to keep the conversation going.
  3. Reschedules a date she can’t make for.
  4. She is nervous around you.
  5. Her body language.
  6. Stares at you now and then.
  7. She makes time for you.
  8. Laughs at whatever you say.
  9. Asks for you help at simple things.
  10. She told her friends or family about you.

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